Love is more than just words. Show your love with practical actions to avoid making your partner feel unloved and risking losing them.

Introduction:

Love is more than just a feeling or emotion – it’s an action that requires effort, expression, and commitment. Saying “I love you” is not enough, especially if your actions do not align with your words. You cannot claim to love someone but continue hurting or neglecting their needs. That is not love; it’s emotional and psychological abuse. 

The Problem:

As a relationship counselor, I often see couples struggling to show their love through actions. Neglecting to do so can cause emotional pain and harm, leaving partners feeling unwanted and unimportant. This neglect can eventually lead to questioning the authenticity of their feelings and result in a relationship breakdown.

Practical Love:

Practical love is all about showing your love for someone through your actions. It involves:

• Actively listening to your partner.
• Being present in the relationship.
• Prioritizing their needs and desires. 

For example, if your partner loves to spend quality time with you, you can show your love by making time for them. Or, if your partner is going through a tough time, you can show your love by being there for them and offering support. 

It’s important to remember that saying “I love you” is not enough if your actions don’t align with your words. Your partner needs to feel loved and appreciated, which comes through your practical efforts to show them that you care.

Your relationship will grow stronger when you consistently make practical efforts to show your love.

Damage Caused By Love Unfelt:

To truly express your love, you must follow through with actions that reflect your words. Your partner may feel neglected, unimportant, and hurt if you claim to love someone but fail to show it. Such actions can harm your relationship and potentially lead to its end. Therefore, expressing your love through your actions, not just words is vital.

Make Your Love Felt:

Making your love felt involves taking practical steps to demonstrate your passion and commitment to your partner. Efforts to show your love for your partner could include:

• Actively listening to them.
• Spending quality time together.
• Being present in the relationship.
• Prioritizing their needs and desires.

For example, you could surprise your partner with their favorite meal, plan a weekend getaway, or take the time to ask about their day and actively listen to their response. Small gestures can go a long way in showing your love and appreciation for your partner.

It’s also important to recognize that love is a two-way street. Both partners must actively demonstrate their love and commitment for the relationship to thrive. You can build a healthy and lasting relationship by making your love felt and putting in consistent effort.

Conclusion:

Feeling love is crucial for maintaining a healthy, thriving relationship. Both partners need to make a deliberate effort to express their love and affection toward each other. Failure to make your partner feel your love can cause emotional harm and thus strain the relationship. 

It’s crucial not to take your partner or relationship for granted. Losing someone you love can be painful, and starting over can be challenging. To cultivate a healthy and long-lasting relationship, be mindful of being kind, considerate, and attentive to your partner. These are essential qualities for a thriving relationship.

To build a healthy and lasting relationship, make a conscious effort to be kind, respectful, and attentive to your partner.